Content Writing

More info


More info

Digital Marketing

More info

Training and Speaking

More info

Friday Digital Roundup

The Friday Digital Roundup is a witty take on the weird world of the internet. With fun stories from around the globe, it’s the only email newsletter you’ll actually read and enjoy!

We do love writing it, but clearly not as much as people like receiving it - just look at the response we got when a technical hitch meant it wasn’t sent out on time!

@roisinduffyVA @roisinduffyva

Coffee and the FDR is how I start my Friday.
Do not engage until I have devoured both

Meschi Consultants @MeschiConsult

When it comes to the end of the week, there is no better way to start a Friday than with a run around the internet with Todd and Jo in the FDR. Just don't let them know I do it from the loo!

Kathryn Lynch-Smith @KikikatSmith

My inbox is full of rubbish newsletters that Im constantly deleting😬 My VIP inbox is for 1 thing only- THE DIGITAL ROUNDUP🤠I dont read a Newspaper or the news online, I just wait for Fridays, when this lands in my inbox- then I know ‘The weekend has landed’🤗

Spaghetti Blog

Tuesday 21st May 2024

Why Your Networking Follow-ups Suck and What You Simply Must do About Them

4N, 4Networking, networking, networking events, Warwickshire networking

If you have a drawer full of business cards, this is for you…


Following up after a networking meetings or an exhibition is not a dark art, but most are terrible at it.

If you’re going to bother going out to find business, you’ll know that it’s one of the key areas that makes it all worthwhile, but most people simply screw it all up.

All that hard work and investment can be wasted with a poor follow up – or by forgetting to do it completely.

The good news is, there’s a really simple and free way to not look like a spammy, forgetful fool when you follow up.

Just last week (Friday) we went to an expo. It was a local event and a very successful one for us. We’ve had a busy week so we’ve only just followed-up. (Tuesday.) Not as early as we’d have liked, but better than what we would’ve done had we rushed it.

There are some really simple ways to improve your follow-up but they require just a little more effort. We wanted to make that effort so we waited until the allotted time. I was just talking to Jo about the frankly awful follow-ups we’ve have so far… so I thought I’d share them with you.


Why Your Networking Follow-ups Suck and What You Simply Must do About Them

Why Your Networking Follow-ups Suck and What You Simply Must do About Them

Don’t CC everyone in your email

First up, it’s the pet hate of mine. Please don’t CC everyone you met at the show or meeting. Use the BCC column if you have to blanket email everyone. My advice here is to actually email everyone individually but if you had a massive prize draw (like we did) then this isn’t always a good use of your time.

If you do accidentally CC everyone else in, you’re sharing data which is illegal as well as unprofessional. If you really have to blanket email everyone then BCC and keep everyone’s email address safe.


Be personal

Right. Here’s the thing: being impersonal is really is avoidable at all times. If you have my business card, then you have my name and you also have my email. The door to a very personal email to me is just a click away!

Take the domain from the end of the email and do some detective work:

  • Go to the website and find out what that person or company does.
  • Work out why they would be interested in you or how you could be helpful to them.
  • Look around the site and read the about page and make your email personal and about them.

No one one cares about you; they care about themselves. Make your email about them and you’re off to a good start with the conversation.


Connect on social media

If you have their business card then you have their email address and that means you have their website (in most cases). So now you can then find them on social media. In fact, on LinkedIn you only need their name and possibly business to find them.

I usually go right to the website and find the social media links from there. If not, then I search on Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn and add them.

On Twitter and especially on LinkedIn I will send a private note to introduce myself and refer back to the email I’ve sent. This does two things:

  1. It reminds them who I am (they may have met many people)
  2. If I say “I’ve just sent you an email so thought I’d connect” it helps your email get opened.


Both are perfectly normal behaviour and help me build a relationship. We try very hard not to be spammy or annoying… because we know how it feels to be on the receiving end.

Adding them to your social media should encourage some social media conversation and relationship building, and helps them learn more about you when or if they check out your social profile.


Remember what you said to them

I love this. How many times have you had a follow-up where the person emailing you has no idea what they spoke to you about?

As I mentioned, we followed up today (Tuesday) from a show on Friday last week.  A lot’s happened since then. But at the show we wrote on every business card the topic of conversation that we had, and what it was particularly the person was interested in, or something we could talk to them about. For next time we’re going to be using colour coded stickers.

Make sure you have the reminders to help you when you follow-up. You could of course scan the business card at the show on an app and add a note, but to be honest, unless you have a big team with you, this might be a distraction.

Write on the card (even if you scan it) so that you have a simple system that’s easy to keep up with and easy to understand when you follow-up days later. We use Full Contact to scan cards into our system, which is simple.


Don’t guess!

Has this ever happened to you? A company emails you after the show or networking event and offers you some info on something you spoke about… that you didn’t speak about?!

It looks really bad on you and makes them feel forgettable. Write a note on the business card or keep a file or the conversations you had. I also like to email myself with a quick note at networking meetings too. This way the email acts as a task I have to complete when I’m back from the show or event.


DO call me, baby

The telephone is an amazing invention and although I do most of my follow-up on digital forms as it enables me to store it all on my CRM and social… the phone is more powerful. Calling people is something I’m really trying to do more of and then follow-up with emails and socials.

Meeting face-to-face is the most powerful way to connect and calling them is next… unless of course you want to video call them… but that’s usually a pre-agreed interaction.


Don’t hard sell (unless they asked you to)

This is a big one. Please try to avoid sending a sales pitch on the first interaction after the event unless they’ve specifically asked for one. The first email needs to be as much about them as possible and sales pitch is awful.

We get loads of them, many of them blanket emails, and they’re very deletable! Nothing says desperate like an email with a list of services and an attached PDF of things to sell.

Start the conversation that leads to the sale, not the email that leads to being ignored and forgotten.


Don’t forget to follow up…

And the biggest one is – DO IT! Don’t go to all the effort of collecting people’s details to then ignore them. We make sure we follow-up wherever possible and then aim to offer them some value where we can. Networking or shows are the start of your relationships in most cases so don’t ruin your chance to move closer by forgetting to do it.

Even when a show or event is the second or third interaction with someone, make it count and follow-up with them again, and move them closer still.


Spaghetti Agency at the Coventry and Warwickshire Chamber Expo 2016


Make the most of your investment…

Networking or exhibiting at a show is an investment. Don’t waste it by making some of the regular and frankly awful mistakes I’ve mentioned here. I’m by no means perfect at this, and before you tell me I forgot to email you back after something a few years ago – I know – I’m not perfect. But I’m aiming to be better. I’m aiming to start relationships and offer value and I never sell in a follow-up unless I’ve been asked to.

Get yourself a system and a good CRM and you’ll be a follow-up God… instead of an unsubscribed fool!

What’s the worst follow-up you’ve had? Add yours in the comments now, I’d love to hear them!

Tags associated with this article

4N 4Networking networking networking events Warwickshire networking

2 comments on this article

  • Dave Sharpe at 15:25pm on November 9th 2016

    So, I’ve handed over my business card to someone I’ve just met at an exhibition.

    Please do not assume this means that I want to be added to a generic email newsletter list.

    Do I really care that Gemma from your accounts department gave birth to a baby girl?

    Or that you’re all looking forward to your Christmas party?


    If you want to add me to your newsletter list please apply the following three-step process:

    1] Introduce yourself and remind me of who you are (after all, I met lots of people at the event).
    2] Tell me about your newsletter and explain how I will benefit from receiving it.
    3] Direct me to a sign up page so that I can quickly subscribe if I want to.

    Hi Dave.

    We met at the CWExpo on Friday… I was the guy who you chatted to about our mutual love of Liverpool FC. What a great result they had on Saturday, eh! Do you think they will win the league? I’m starting to think so.


    This may not be right for you, but we have a weekly email newsletter that we send to subscribers. It’s a quick read which shares 5 proven tips to help you grow your business. We call it the Biz Booster Weekly.

    If you’d like to subscribe here’s the link to the sign up page xxxx.

    I’ll give you a call on Monday to arrange the 1-2-1 we spoke about.

    Up the Reds!”

    1. Todd at 15:10pm on November 24th 2016

      Haha… EXACTLY!

Post a comment

We'd love to know what you think - please leave a comment!

99 Simple Marketing Tips

99 Simple Marketing Tips You Can Use to Treble Your Business

Struggling to know where to start with your digital marketing?

We’ve got a tonne of ideas that you can put in place for your marketing – directly from our past 8 years growing an engaged following and strong business.

What You’ll Get

Over 16 pages of content

Short, simple nuggets

Ideal for SMEs and start-ups

Download Now